The Thread

There is a thread that keeps our lives from unraveling. The tighter and more secure it is, the steadier our footing becomes. But as the thread loosens, we find ourselves on shaky ground—sometimes in situations we never thought we’d face.

This thread is often overlooked because it’s invisible to the naked eye. Its importance becomes clear only when we step back and see the bigger picture, like a mosaic. Each piece of the portrait is unique and delicate, but together, they create something extraordinary.

As you gaze upon this portrait, you’ll begin to discern the decisions you’ve made, the positions you’ve chosen, and the relationships you’ve engaged in. They all stem from this thread.

What is the thread, you ask?

The thread is validation.

Validation recognizes and affirms us, assuring us that our feelings and opinions are valid and worthwhile.

When the thread is secure, it means we’ve aligned ourselves with what God has spoken over us. It signifies that we’re looking inward—toward our divine purpose and worth—instead of outward for affirmation and approval.

But when the thread is loose, it reflects poor decisions rooted in the opinions of others—people who don’t know us or understand our calling. A loose thread allows external voices to guide our steps and causes us to forget that our Heavenly Father has already spoken life, value, and purpose into us.

I’m here to remind you: Tighten the thread.You don’t need external validation—you’ve already been validated by the One who matters most.

Heartwork:

• Reflect on the areas in your life where the thread feels loose. Where have you been seeking validation externally?

• Write down three affirmations based on what God has said about you. Speak them over yourself daily.

• Identify one faith step you can take this week to align with His truth about who you are.